At some point, every Dominant with a few decades under their belt realizes they’ve got stories to tell. Some are funny, some are cautionary tales, and some are just too good to let them fade into the void. That’s why I’m here, to write them down before my memory decides to betray me.

I’ve been in this world long enough to see the gap between expectation and reality trip people up more times than I can count. I’ve watched new subs come in expecting every scene to be some earth-shattering, cinematic moment of self-discovery. I’ve seen Dominants who think they have to be stoic, unreadable enigmas 24/7. It’s actually all way messier than that. It’s also a hell of a lot more fun, more nuanced, and, when done right, far more satisfying.

The best scenes are the ones that flow naturally, where both people know their roles, trust each other, and can handle the occasional moment of levity without breaking the spell. If you’re here for the real, unfiltered version of what BDSM actually looks like then you’re in the right place.

So, what can you expect? Stories, perspective, and a healthy dose of truth. If you’re a sub, you’ll get a look into how a seasoned Dominant actually thinks. If you’re a Dominant yourself then maybe you’ll see something that resonates. And if you’re just here because you’re curious? Welcome. Let’s talk about what this world really looks like.